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  • Andy Roberts

ben silby’s 'my bad': A Playful Dive into the Complexity of Love



Brooklyn-based queer indie-pop artist ben silby returns with “my bad,” a vibrant single that perfectly encapsulates their signature blend of genuine emotion and campy charm. Known for crafting infectious tunes that traverse the realms of candy sleaze and existential introspection, silby’s latest offering is a testament to their evolving artistry and fearless exploration of personal themes.


Originally penned in 2018, “my bad” reflects a relationship that lingered too long, fueled by a powerful physical connection. Over the years, as silby performed the song live, it became clear that a rock undertone was necessary to convey its raw emotion. The result is a track that seamlessly marries heartfelt lyrics with a buoyant, energetic sound that captures the essence of indie pop while infusing it with a distinct rock edge.


Recorded with a rich palette of analog instruments—including synths, guitars, bass, and drums—“my bad” stands out in today’s digital-heavy music landscape. The warm, authentic feel of the production enhances its relatability, making it an anthem for anyone who has grappled with the complexities of love and desire.


In silby’s words, “my bad” is about confronting the uncomfortable truths of relationships. It’s a candid exploration of the dichotomy between sex and love, the necessity of owning one’s mistakes, and finding humor in seemingly dire situations. This lyrical depth, combined with a playful yet poignant delivery, makes “my bad” an engaging listen.




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